Seriously look at yourself in the mirror and make a decision. Either you could do with more exercise and some healthy foods or you give up on yourself. You are going to have to work hard to keep in shape for the rest of your life. All of us are!
Dave uses this example when talking about your finances. You need to continue to education yourself and work hard to control your money and spending habits. Time to take a good look at your bills and accounts... just do it! Your bills aren't going away on their own (I wish!). So take a look at what you have and start to schedule some time into your day to work with your money. Just like you do (or should do) with exercise.
I started working out again on Sunday after a long holiday/travel break. The first day I was forcing myself to lift weights. The second day I got up an hour early and lifted more weights. The third day I got up before my alarm and lifted weights again... THEN when I got home from work I did a 30 min cardio workout on the treadmill. What changed on that third day? Besides some new tunes on my ipod and jamming out on the way home, I had major energy. I was ready to run my ass off... literally!
That was exactly how it was with starting this debt snowball... or working on our budget. We were pushing ourselves and resisting. Then all of the sudden we saw we had more money to put on debt. We were energized and ready to make some big payments.
Now get some motivation and get to work already!
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
The Silver Lining of Being $800,000 in Debt
I firmly believe there is a reason for everything. In our 20s, we spent every penny on drinking, eating at restaurants, clothes, expensive cars, and traveling. We still travel and eat out occasionally but we are learning how to live way beneath our means. If we make $150,000 a year we need to learn how to live on $60,000 a year. If we can master that, once we are debt free we will have $90,000 to invest, give and save.
Let's see how much we would need a year if we were debt free.
Utilities: $300
Phone: $15 (see Changes Page for explanation, was $188)
Internet/Cable: $87
Hair Cut: $25
Netflix: $15
Groceries: $521 (budgeted)
Gas: $280 (budgeted)
Phone: $15 (see Changes Page for explanation, was $188)
Internet/Cable: $87
Hair Cut: $25
Netflix: $15
Groceries: $521 (budgeted)
Gas: $280 (budgeted)
Total: $1,243 x 12 months = $14,916
What is my point? If we weren't in this much debt now, we would have continued to spend, and spend, and spend. I am sure you know at least one person that gets a new car nearly every year... or someone that constantly gets new stuff like phones, ipods, computers, ipad, kindle, and any other electronic. Chances are pretty damn good that they are broke. Even if they did pay off the credit card they bought the stuff on... what are the odds they have a fully funded emergency fund? How about a plan for retirement?
There is no way I could have ever imagined living debt free. If we hadn't been in such a deep hole, I never would have read Dave Ramsey's book and learned that we could be debt free. I never would have learned how to invest in my 401k properly or to have an emergency fund.
The future is bright... much brighter than if we would have just continued down the spending path we were on.
The future is bright... much brighter than if we would have just continued down the spending path we were on.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
A Breakup Letter to My Credit Card
Dear Credit Card,
I can hardly begin to put into words what we have been through. When I think of you, I think of Paris, Cabo, Cancun, Playa del Carmen and so many other trips we have been on together. I am not sure what I would have done if you hadn't been there during the summer of 2005, when I was at my lowest point. It was scary not knowing how I would eat week to week. It was you that got me through that rough time.
Unfortunately all those times I thought you were helping me out, I came to realize that I would have to pay you back plus 12% to 28% interest. Do you know how that made me feel? I had just pulled myself out of a horrible time and then I get slapped across the face by an interest charge of $200?! How is that fair?!
Yet like a battered wife, I returned to you time and time again. I thought I needed you... I thought you were helping me out by giving me points, cash back and airline miles. I was wrong. You don't help, you hurt people. There is no give and take in this relationship. It is all about you and I get nothing out of it. I respect myself enough to end it here and now.
We are over. You are no longer my emergency contact... I have been seeing someone else. They are honest and respectful, simple yet powerful. My new relationship is with cash.
I am sure you will find someone else to harass and control. I wish I could spread the message to stay away from you, but I guess people will have to learn on their own.
Do not contact me any more, I don't care about any of your offers.
-We are done!
This letter was inspired from John Acuff's book Gazelles, Baby Steps and 37 Other Things Dave Ramsey Taught Me about Debt
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I can hardly begin to put into words what we have been through. When I think of you, I think of Paris, Cabo, Cancun, Playa del Carmen and so many other trips we have been on together. I am not sure what I would have done if you hadn't been there during the summer of 2005, when I was at my lowest point. It was scary not knowing how I would eat week to week. It was you that got me through that rough time.
Unfortunately all those times I thought you were helping me out, I came to realize that I would have to pay you back plus 12% to 28% interest. Do you know how that made me feel? I had just pulled myself out of a horrible time and then I get slapped across the face by an interest charge of $200?! How is that fair?!
Yet like a battered wife, I returned to you time and time again. I thought I needed you... I thought you were helping me out by giving me points, cash back and airline miles. I was wrong. You don't help, you hurt people. There is no give and take in this relationship. It is all about you and I get nothing out of it. I respect myself enough to end it here and now.
We are over. You are no longer my emergency contact... I have been seeing someone else. They are honest and respectful, simple yet powerful. My new relationship is with cash.
I am sure you will find someone else to harass and control. I wish I could spread the message to stay away from you, but I guess people will have to learn on their own.
Do not contact me any more, I don't care about any of your offers.
-We are done!
This letter was inspired from John Acuff's book Gazelles, Baby Steps and 37 Other Things Dave Ramsey Taught Me about Debt
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Saturday, February 5, 2011
Financing a Vacation
Do you put your trip or vacation on a credit card? When you are on the trip do you put your hotel, meals and entertainment on a credit card? That's exactly what we did and nearly everyone else in America.
Here are a few tips for a debt free vacation:
1. Book your flights on your debit card. Yeah I said it! Don't book your vacation until you have the money in your checking account and can pay for it right then and there.
2. Budget your meals. "A vacation is for relaxing and spending, not budgeting!" Guess what? There is a reason you are reading this blog... you have a problem with spending. You rationalize your money away. This past weekend I had to say these words to my family: "Hi my name is Amanda and I have a problem with debt." Seriously! I said that to my brother and mom when we were leaving a diner after having breakfast. I think the topic was opening a discover card or something. You HAVE to budget everything. I am not saying you have to have a side salad for your dinner. I am saying for 2 people budgeting $100 a day for food on vacation is probably plenty, depending on where you are vacationing. Just set a limit and stick to it!
3. Booking a hotel... see #1. Put it on your debit card. Don't have the money? Don't book the trip!
4. Use cash for entertainment. Plan on swimming with the dolphins, touring museums, parasailing, or concerts? Bring cash for all activities and once the cash runs out the fun stops. Plan ahead... usually you can book your excursions ahead of time online.
Here are a few tips for a debt free vacation:
1. Book your flights on your debit card. Yeah I said it! Don't book your vacation until you have the money in your checking account and can pay for it right then and there.2. Budget your meals. "A vacation is for relaxing and spending, not budgeting!" Guess what? There is a reason you are reading this blog... you have a problem with spending. You rationalize your money away. This past weekend I had to say these words to my family: "Hi my name is Amanda and I have a problem with debt." Seriously! I said that to my brother and mom when we were leaving a diner after having breakfast. I think the topic was opening a discover card or something. You HAVE to budget everything. I am not saying you have to have a side salad for your dinner. I am saying for 2 people budgeting $100 a day for food on vacation is probably plenty, depending on where you are vacationing. Just set a limit and stick to it!
3. Booking a hotel... see #1. Put it on your debit card. Don't have the money? Don't book the trip!
4. Use cash for entertainment. Plan on swimming with the dolphins, touring museums, parasailing, or concerts? Bring cash for all activities and once the cash runs out the fun stops. Plan ahead... usually you can book your excursions ahead of time online.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Severe Weather Expenses
Winter weather... or "The Winter Storm of 2011" as they will call it... is going to leave many people without power, transportation and access to cash. I have seen cars broken down in the middle of the road from cracked lines, broken belts, and busted parts these past 2 days. I have experienced water not turning on in the bathroom sink and bathtubs not draining from frozen p-traps. What will happen when it starts to get warm? Thankfully we have home owners insurance for the worst of it, if necessary. Otherwise we need to dip into our emergency fund of $1,000 (auto/home insurance deductible).
As bad as this will be for many people across the US, I can't help but reflect back on the worst weather experience we have ever had... oh what a story it is...
2005 Hurricane Katerina was making headlines for months. Katerina had hit south florida and we were out of power for 5 days. Hot and sticky but manageable. It was Wilma that came in with vengeance a few weeks later. I had just made my first very own car purchase. A 2003 BMW 300 series, 2 door coupe. Leather interior and tinted windows that would surely get me pulled over. Oh it smelled SOOOO amazing! 7 days after I signed my financial freedom away, I was at the gym and when I came out I noticed someone had keyed my car. It was keyed on the hood, trunk, sides... someone purposely destroyed my paint job. Obviously I was livid! But there is not one thing I could but other than pay the deductible and have someone redo the paint job.
I took it to some mechanic shop that was going to "give me a deal" (my first mistake). I said good-bye and picked up my crappy rental car. A hurricane was blowing into town over the next week or so and I was relieved to have my car safely stowed away in someone's garage instead of out there in the elements. Sure enough it was the worst hurricane we had been through. After hours of being pummeled we came out of our houses and decided to take a tour to access the damage. No one had power or radio.
The city looked like a war zone. Seriously. Giant sky scrapers made with all windows looked like a bomb had gone off. Million dollar condos lining the city were left with only braces and beams. No street signs or light. Trees lying across the roads, along with glass and yard furniture. There was a curfew of 6pm. If you were out past 6 you would be pulled over and ticketed.
2am: less than 24 hours after the storm. A knock on the door wakes us up. We couldn't turn on a light to see who it was... and that in itself was terrifying. It was the police. 2 teens had broken into the garage where my car was stored and stolen it. They were picked up about 45 minutes across the county and we were to go and identify the car.... in the middle of the night... with no street lights, signs or stop lights. That 45 minute drive was horrific... giant trees blocking the roads, debris everywhere.
We made it finally and I saw my car... bashed and beaten. I started crying. The police officer said. "Don't cry, it's only an object ma'am." I replied with a teary: "It's my first and only object in my name!" (now-a-days I realize it was in the banks name). It was drivable with major outer damage but nothing a good mechanic couldn't fix. It was 3 months before I got my car back. I had already made 2 car payments on it and had only driven it for 7 days. We were out of power for 21 days in the hot, sticky, horrible heat in South Florida.
So for everyone that will have to deal with "The Winter Storm of 2011," my heart goes out to you. Been there, done that. Good luck and be safe.
As bad as this will be for many people across the US, I can't help but reflect back on the worst weather experience we have ever had... oh what a story it is...
2005 Hurricane Katerina was making headlines for months. Katerina had hit south florida and we were out of power for 5 days. Hot and sticky but manageable. It was Wilma that came in with vengeance a few weeks later. I had just made my first very own car purchase. A 2003 BMW 300 series, 2 door coupe. Leather interior and tinted windows that would surely get me pulled over. Oh it smelled SOOOO amazing! 7 days after I signed my financial freedom away, I was at the gym and when I came out I noticed someone had keyed my car. It was keyed on the hood, trunk, sides... someone purposely destroyed my paint job. Obviously I was livid! But there is not one thing I could but other than pay the deductible and have someone redo the paint job.
I took it to some mechanic shop that was going to "give me a deal" (my first mistake). I said good-bye and picked up my crappy rental car. A hurricane was blowing into town over the next week or so and I was relieved to have my car safely stowed away in someone's garage instead of out there in the elements. Sure enough it was the worst hurricane we had been through. After hours of being pummeled we came out of our houses and decided to take a tour to access the damage. No one had power or radio.
The city looked like a war zone. Seriously. Giant sky scrapers made with all windows looked like a bomb had gone off. Million dollar condos lining the city were left with only braces and beams. No street signs or light. Trees lying across the roads, along with glass and yard furniture. There was a curfew of 6pm. If you were out past 6 you would be pulled over and ticketed.
2am: less than 24 hours after the storm. A knock on the door wakes us up. We couldn't turn on a light to see who it was... and that in itself was terrifying. It was the police. 2 teens had broken into the garage where my car was stored and stolen it. They were picked up about 45 minutes across the county and we were to go and identify the car.... in the middle of the night... with no street lights, signs or stop lights. That 45 minute drive was horrific... giant trees blocking the roads, debris everywhere.
We made it finally and I saw my car... bashed and beaten. I started crying. The police officer said. "Don't cry, it's only an object ma'am." I replied with a teary: "It's my first and only object in my name!" (now-a-days I realize it was in the banks name). It was drivable with major outer damage but nothing a good mechanic couldn't fix. It was 3 months before I got my car back. I had already made 2 car payments on it and had only driven it for 7 days. We were out of power for 21 days in the hot, sticky, horrible heat in South Florida.
So for everyone that will have to deal with "The Winter Storm of 2011," my heart goes out to you. Been there, done that. Good luck and be safe.
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